How to overcome Grief in Life?

To live a life, you should deal with tragedies in the most beautiful ways.

Life is not a constant for anybody who breathes, it’s always ups and downs. You manage life as you go through it.

People’s experiences are always diverse in nature due to their reactions to life events.

Life is a serious business for us. People go through many different types of losses in life.

Although, everyone is always in search of something that they don’t have. But losing something that exists in life can sometimes become very difficult to manage. Many are lucky enough to have a life filled with joy and sheer bliss. Some are always in a tragic situation.

Grief is the intense sadness caused by the death of someone close. So, how do people endure such occurrences and overcome grief?

Consider someone close that you know and have lived together for many years. Any person that you have spent years of life with and shared your inner fears and troubles with suddenly breathes his/her last someday.

Most people just get shocked by this happening as it is something that you don’t expect to happen. You don’t imagine your life without these people and when one of them suddenly passes away, it tears you apart.

Life is not the same afterward even though time heals some wounds. But the heart is never the same for some people.

So how should you move through such painful times?

First, you need to understand your mortal nature. Death takes life away at one moment. Therefore, there is no guarantee that you will breathe in the next moment. But you don’t give everything up to realize that you are going to die sooner or later. But you try to do your best in your life period. Or at least you should.

When you realize that whatever you have in this life is temporary innately. And it is going to leave you soon or vice versa. But you believe deep down that something unimaginably beautiful is created for the believers in the life after death.

Where you will get to be with the ones you loved. This belief provides the ultimate relief that whoever you lose in this life will be with you in the eternal world.

Prayer is the best reliever of pain because when you bow before the Creator, He holds you and strengthens your heart. All of the grief is lost in the remembrance of your Allah and His Beloved Prophet (PBUH).

Our Prophet Muhammad (صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم) endured all the tribulations with courage, patience, and prayer.

If you believe firmly in the hereafter, you should never harm yourself in the wake of grief. Remember if you lose something very dear to your heart, Allah will replace it with something better and He is the wisest of all.

Allah calls Himself Al-Hakeem — The All-Wise, The Judicious. Whatever He decrees, you should accept and grieve most humbly. Whenever in life you have to tackle grief, look forward to the way of your Beloved Prophet Muhammad (صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم).

His zikr is the cure for all griefs and diseases and it lightens up the dark heart. Send as many blessings as you can upon Him (صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم) and Allah will remove every worry and grief away from your heart.

Stay blessed 😊